A worthy Model

Leroy Gary Carter

May 19, 1938 - February 12, 2021

​The Life of Gary LeRoy Carter

May 19, 1938 – February 12, 2021

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A Life Well Lived

Gary LeRoy Carter passed away peacefully on February 12, 2021, in American Fork, Utah, at the age of 82. His life was one marked by perseverance, devotion to family, athletic excellence, and a deep appreciation for the simple joys that make life meaningful. Gary’s legacy is carried forward by the countless family members and friends whose lives were touched by his kindness, encouragement, and steady presence.

Born on May 19, 1938, in Ogden, Utah, Gary entered the world during a season of renewal, a fitting beginning for a man whose life would be defined by growth, resilience, and enduring love. From his earliest years, Gary learned the value of hard work, integrity, and loyalty—qualities that remained central to his character throughout his life.

Gary was a devoted husband, a proud father, a loving grandfather and great-grandfather, and a trusted friend. Whether on the playing field, the golf course, the hunting trail, or in the quiet moments shared with family, he lived with purpose and heart. Those who knew Gary remember him as a man of strength and warmth, competitive yet gentle, disciplined yet generous.

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Early Years in Ogden, Utah

Gary was born to Richard LeRoy Carter and Emma Jane Fife. His early childhood was shaped by the strong influence of his mother, Jane, and later by Daniel Francis Thomas, his admired stepfather. Together, they modeled the values of diligence, compassion, and perseverance that Gary would carry into adulthood.

Growing up in Ogden, Gary experienced a close-knit community and a childhood that balanced responsibility with opportunity. These formative years helped shape his love for teamwork, self-discipline, and personal accountability. His parents’ dedication and care instilled in him a strong moral compass and an appreciation for family bonds.

One of the defining challenges of Gary’s youth came when he contracted the polio virus. During a time when polio was feared and outcomes were uncertain, Gary faced the illness with remarkable strength. Through dedicated treatment and round-the-clock care from his mother, he survived without suffering paralysis—an outcome that felt nothing short of miraculous. This early battle became a testament to both his resilience and his mother’s unwavering devotion.

Rather than limiting him, this experience seemed to strengthen Gary’s determination to live fully and actively.

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A Young Athlete with Big Dreams

At Ogden High School, Gary flourished. Despite his earlier health challenges, he emerged as a standout athlete, excelling in competitive sports and earning varsity letters in three: football, basketball, and baseball. His athleticism, work ethic, and competitive spirit set him apart, earning the respect of teammates and coaches alike.

Gary played second base in American Legion Baseball, where he demonstrated quick reflexes, strategic thinking, and a natural ability to read the game. On the football field and basketball court, he brought the same intensity and teamwork, always pushing himself and encouraging those around him.

Even in his youth, Gary exhibited the qualities that would define him as a man: loyalty, discipline, humility, and a quiet confidence that inspired trust.

It was during his high school years—at just 18 years old—that Gary met the love of his life, Judy Coop. Their meeting marked the beginning of a partnership that would span more than six decades, rooted in devotion, friendship, and unwavering commitment.

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College, Competition, and Lifelong Friendships

After high school, Gary continued his athletic journey at Weber State, where he competed fiercely in basketball. The sport remained a passion, and the camaraderie of college athletics deepened his appreciation for teamwork and perseverance.

At Weber State, Gary formed friendships with teammates that lasted a lifetime. These bonds, forged through shared effort and mutual respect, reflected his ability to connect with others on a meaningful level. Gary was known not only for his competitive edge but also for his sportsmanship and integrity.

Basketball, for Gary, was more than a game—it was a discipline, a way to challenge himself, and a source of joy. Though he would eventually transition away from team sports, the lessons learned on the court stayed with him: commitment, adaptability, and resilience.

These years also marked a transition into adulthood, as Gary began building the foundation for the life he would share with Judy and their future family.

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 A Love That Lasted a Lifetime

Gary and Judy’s love story is one of enduring devotion. Together for 64 years, they built a marriage grounded in mutual respect, shared values, and deep affection. Their relationship stood as an example to their children, grandchildren, and all who knew them.

In 2002, Gary and Judy were sealed in the Jordan River Temple, a sacred milestone that reflected their faith and eternal commitment to one another. Their marriage was marked by teamwork—facing challenges together, celebrating successes, and always supporting one another.

Gary cherished Judy, often expressing gratitude for her strength and companionship. She was his partner in every sense, and their bond remained strong through each season of life.

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Raising a Family

Together, Gary and Judy raised four daughters: Carrie, Pamela, Stacey, and Leslee. Gary was immensely proud of his daughters, frequently speaking of their strength, intelligence, and accomplishments. He admired the women they became and the families they built.

Gary’s role as a father was defined by encouragement and quiet guidance. He believed in showing up, in being present, and in offering support without condition. His pride in his children was evident in his words and actions.

The family lived in Fresno and Pleasanton, California, where Gary worked, raised his family, and continued to build a life centered on love and responsibility. Though life took them away from Utah for a time, Gary never lost his connection to his roots.

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 A Passion for the Outdoors

Gary was an outdoorsman at heart. He loved fishing, hunting upland game and waterfowl, and spending time in nature. Some of his happiest days were spent hunting with his grandsons, reaching his bag limit while creating memories that would last a lifetime.

He also had a deep appreciation for gardening, especially tomatoes. Known for his green thumb, Gary took pride in growing sweet, flavorful tomatoes and enjoyed them most simply—often on a BLT.

These outdoor pursuits reflected Gary’s appreciation for patience, skill, and the rewards of careful effort. Nature offered him peace, challenge, and joy.

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Golf, Grandchildren, and Gentle Teaching

As Gary aged, he transitioned from team sports to golf, discovering a new passion that suited both his competitive spirit and his love for leisure. He approached golf with enthusiasm, often finding a few birdies during his rounds.

More than the game itself, Gary loved sharing golf with his grandchildren. He spent countless hours teaching them how to improve their swings, offering tips, encouragement, and patience. These moments were not about perfection but about connection.

Gary had a tender heart, especially when it came to his grandchildren. He never forgot a birthday, always marking the occasion with a card and a phone call. He took genuine interest in their lives and achievements, making each one feel known and valued.

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Returning Home to Utah

Later in life, Gary and Judy returned to Utah to be closer to family. This move allowed Gary to spend more time with his growing circle of grandchildren and great-grandchildren—a role he cherished deeply.

He spoke often and proudly of his family, celebrating their accomplishments and milestones. His joy came not from personal accolades but from the success and happiness of those he loved.

Gary lived a full and meaningful life, one rooted in faith, family, and enduring values. His presence brought comfort, his words brought encouragement, and his example inspired many.

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 A Lasting Legacy

Gary LeRoy Carter leaves behind a powerful legacy of love, resilience, and devotion. He is survived by his beloved wife, Judy Carter; his daughters Carrie (Bill) McCleary, Pam (Cary) Elder, Stacey (Paul) Christiansen, and Leslee (Mark) Cleman; 19 grandchildren; and 50 great-grandchildren.

His life reminds us that greatness is often found in quiet dedication—in showing up, in loving deeply, and in living with integrity. Gary’s influence will continue to be felt through the generations who carry his name, his lessons, and his love forward.

He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.